People change..

Assalamualaikum, Selamat Hari Raya Aidiladha and happy monday! There have been a lot of things going on for the last few weeks, various issues and experiences.. But what i wanted to share is about this one thing.. changing to a new phase. Everyone will go through a different phases at different time. Sometimes, the changing that you have made, makes people happy or vice versa. Sometimes its good and sometimes its not.. And there are also many reasons for you to made the changes.

As for me, i have made a big change or because of things happening around me, i've change. I never want to think about it anymore since its my past and i never want to remember about it but why suddenly i write this is because of its happening again but not to me, to my friend.

To cut short, he has broke up with his gf and the relationship has gone over for 5 years.. It hit him badly, i can feels what he felt and i felt sorry for him. i barely known him and just recently we've spoken. I took over 2 years to get over with but my friend said, insyaallah he will try to get over with within a week. I've cried every single day and every time at that time but he didn't cried but i know deep inside, he is disappointed n sad. Guys don't cry rite.. hehehe

Anyways, after a few days, he started to change. Not for the worst but for the better, hopefully, insyaallah.. I always pray that he didn't do such negative things. But alhamdulillah, he's doing okay, i guess.. Didn't get a chance to talk to him and from the emails n sms, i believe he's trying to cope with everything.. slowly.. Sometimes when we've hit with this kind of situation, most of us will take the shortcut way to forget the problems. But as per advice by my bestie, we have to make lots of doa, believe in Allah SWT and there is always hikmah in everything. I believe we as human being, will always forget and its time to 'mendekatkan diri kpd Allah SWT'. Pray is the best to calm you down.  

I personally wanted to say, have faith, make loads of doa, byk kn bersabar and everything that has happen or is going to happen has its own reason, kena menerima ujian Allah SWT dgn hati yang terbuka and tabah and insyaallah Allah SWT akan permudahkan semuanya.. And this message also goes to my oficemate who has just 'putus tunang'.. I can lend me my ear just in case you need someone to listen to or if you guys need my 10cent of advice.. Insyaallah..